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  • Are you managing the soil around your Heart?

    When managing a plant we typically focus on what the plant looks like on the outside, and often ignore facts like plants begin to wither from beneath the soil, where the public eye can't see it. Often we get caught up in functioning as public successes and then living as a private failures. Putting to much focus on events and offenses, we typically end up neglecting our own "SOIL"? I now pose you a question How are you managing your soil? “Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing themselves.” – Leo Tolstoy What is soil? Soil is a natural resource used for growth of land and plants. The soil that I'm referring to is around your heart, what things are you allowing your soil to inherit and soak up? Here are a few keys things to know about a soils functionality and benefits. · Most plants get their nutrients from soil · It is the main source of survival · Most living things depend on soil for their existence · Soil Helps Anchor your roots Scientist have classified that there are four types of soils. Sandy Soil - is light, warm, dry and tend to be acidic and low in nutrients. Sandy soils are often known as light soils due to their high proportion of sand and little clay (clay weighs more than sand). These soils have quick water drainage and are easy to work with. Silty Soil -is slippery when wet, not grainy or rocky. The soil itself can be called silt if its silt content is greater than 80 percent. When deposits of silt are compressed and the grains are pressed together, rocks such as siltstone form. Silt is created when rock is eroded, or worn away, by water and ice. Clay Soil-is a heavy soil type that benefits from high nutrients. Clay soils remain wet and cold in winter and dry out in summer. These soils are made of over 25 percent clay, and because of the spaces found between clay particles, clay soils hold a high amount of water. Loamy Soil-made with a balance of the three main types of soil: sand, silt, and clay soil. As a general rule, loam soil should consist of equal parts of all three soil types. This combination of soil types creates the perfect soil texture for plant growth Luke 8:5-8 While a large crowd was gathering and people were coming to Jesus from town after town, he told this parable: “A farmer went out to sow his seed. As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path; it was trampled on, and the birds ate it up. Some fell on rocky ground, and when it came up, the plants withered because they had no moisture. Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up with it and choked the plants. Still other seed fell on good soil. It came up and yielded a crop, a hundred times more than was sown.” What type of soil do you have? The type of soil you have will depend on the things we allow to be deposited in us; these things can range from environments we place ourselves in, emotions that have lingered around to long( emotions should be temporary) and states of minds we have allowed ourselves to settle in ( a state of mind can become permanent). For some, you will identify with one of the soils quickly and for most it will be something that will take a little longer to recognize because you have been laser focus on others soil and not your own. I would prefer the Loamy Soil I need to be able to grow, produce and multiply my fruit! When was the last time you evaluated your soil? I started tending to my soil pretty regularly when I realized that, that the plant I was created to be needed to maintain and sustain my purpose in this world. Your purpose needs to be nurtured and maintain pretty regularly. Who is gardening your soil? A Gardner is a person who tends and cultivates a garden as a pastime or for a living. I remember asking myself who am I allowing to cultivate my garden. To cultivate means to improve or develop by careful attention, training, study or to prepare land. I then identified that it was God and that the gardener had never left my soil had just lost touch with him. Sometimes its hard to identify something that you were never aware of but here are some ways to identify if your soil is at risk . What type of things contribute to feeding your soil? I would describe it as anything we allow to deposit and/or reside into our hearts? · Tv shows · Quotes · Memes · Lack of discipline · Perception · Lack of understanding · Environmental residue · Lingering energy · Spirits (of all kinds) · Social media · Books · Radio · Podcast · Religion · Influencers · Old plants / leaves (your Past) · And so on…. Lack of knowledge about our soil Being unaware of knowledge that you lack about your soil is a starter. This summer I got to learn a lot about plants because I fell in love with the “IDEA” of ways they could calm me and how they could add healthy benefits to my home. Let me add that these were the only things I looked up about the plants, all that was important to me was clean air and the Zen that was coming my way. Why did I limit myself on the becoming knowledgeable about something that I was investing my time and money in? Here are a few reasons how we block incoming knowledge from being received or sought out: Clinging to one's comfort zone. Fear of Failure. Arrogance Defensiveness. Impatience. Rigid mindset. Lack of perspective I will go through each one of these in next upcoming challenge "Factoring (I) into the equation" next month. For now I will acknowledge what took me out, impatience and arrogance! TRIGGERRED anyone? Well I was because I thought who ever cant take care of plants is an idiot!! All you have to do is water them!!! WRONG! Lack of understanding At this point my house looked like little shop of horrors (but in a good way). My plan was to water the plants every day and I would reap all the benefits ( Yes the only two I looked up). One plant started to die quickly while another plant flourished, and they alternated in this pattern all over the house. I was aware that the plants were all different, but my lack of understanding prohibited me from creating separate plans for my plants (there is an app for this). We typically lack understanding in things because we don’t ask enough clarifying questions and/or we don’t read the entire manual to begin with. I am guilty of both. Lack of wisdom Lack of wisdom comes from not having understanding or knowledge. Wisdom cant exist if you lack understanding of the information. Simple understanding doesn't just come from compiling information in your head, it derives from identifying what words really mean (not perceived definitions your brain has created). I can honestly admit to you with a transparent heart I had acquired absolutely no wisdom about my plants prior to my plant's downfall. What I can say is that my ego encouraged me to pretend like I had wisdom. It was really just to soothe an emotional need I was experiencing at the time and it was costly also. In the end I wasted my money and time because I chose arrogance and impatience over acquiring the wisdom, opting in to Ego and Opting out of Humility. Please Take the proper steps to gain wisdom, Lack of wisdom will always cost you ! Lack of boundaries (excessive human demand of ourselves) Buying 20+ plants was already excessive in just the number itself, but my capacity to care for the plants was limited. Not to be funny but managing 1 hubby, 2 hormonal daughters, a dog, a rabbit and two baby companies .... the Capacity is almost full lol. If we offer ourselves up to people, events, activities, situations and so on with no limitation or boundaries for what we give out we are setting ourselves up to damage our soil. I once heard a quote from Iyanla Vanzant “ What is in your cup is for you what comes out of your cup is for others." Your cup cannot runneth over if you are allowing people to drink from inside the cup as well. If your cup isn’t filling back up at the rate people are drinking from, you begin trying to give from an empty cup. Which it can cause you to be disconnected from your gardener! Bad Soil can reject a good seed! At this moment and time we might be sitting here looking like well I'll be damned! When did this happen? and How did we get here? Our soil doesn’t just become affected over night. Our soil was always required to be carefully managed because it can easily become damaged or toxic. If we understand our soil and manage it properly we will avoid destroying one of the essential building blocks God has designed for ourselves and what feeds our spirits. If you ignore the faulty state that your soil is currently in , eventually your soil will come deal with your tree. Matthew 3:10 The ax is already at the root of the trees, and every tree that does not produce good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire Key Tips in Managing your soil · Become aware of your soil- This is going to take some self revelation, sometimes the ENEMY is (IN ME), its you! · Take accountability for your faulty soil – your soil is being managed by you and only you This can be no one else’s fault but your own. Only you can change you ! (+ GOD) ·Transplant your self to some better soil- Sometimes it takes you to relocate ( not physically necessarily) but spiritually your heart might need to be moved to a healthier pot of soil. · Add some organic Compost – or·gan·ic relating to or derived from living matter, this for me is the word of God, my manual for life . For you it might be something different but you need will need something organic to add nutrients back to your soil. Luke 8:11-15 “This is the meaning of the parable: The seed is the word of God. Those along the path are the ones who hear, and then the devil comes and takes away the word from their hearts, so that they may not believe and be saved. Those on the rocky ground are the ones who receive the word with joy when they hear it, but they have no root. They believe for a while, but in the time of testing they fall away. The seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life’s worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature. But the seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop If your interested in signing up for the challenge to help manage your soil click the link below and subscribe! Factoring the (I) into the Equation The Change I want to see must begin in me! Pastor Van Moody

  • Bad Company Corrupts Good Character.

    1st Corinthians 15:33 Bad company corrupts good character. Over the past 3 years I have had to surrender a lot of things including long -term friendships, important relationships and just things I thought weren't good for me. I finally realized I lacked boundaries; I was allowing people to walk around freely in my life and not really realizing that they had access to all the gate codes Pastor Michael Todd states in his book Relationship Goals “boundaries are the one thing God uses to help us reach our purpose. It preserves who he made us to be at our core.” I then asked myself Was I protecting my core? How was I protecting my core? And did I really know what that looked like for me. Then it hit me out of nowhere Every piece of fruit has a core but how is it protected and why? The core of a fruit is the central part of it that contains seeds There are normally three layers to a piece of fruit 1st layer (boundary) -Epicarp This is the outer layer; it's made to be tough but we have seen many times if you drop it or place it near a rotten piece of fruit it can become bruised or affected by its environment. 2nd Layer (boundary)- Mesocarp This is the middle layer; this is the part that can be eaten. C 3rd layer (boundary) - Endocarp This is the last layer; it protects the seed Why are your seeds so important? You are a fruit of the spirit and your seeds were meant to be sewn and to produce good fruit! Galatians 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Imagine what happens when your core is exposed to the wrong people? I can, I would call it stunted growth! I had my core all open and I was allowing myself to not be fulfilled in God’s Purpose for my life. Mostly because I lacked boundaries with all sorts of things. What is affecting your core? Dehydrated friendships and thirsty negative behaviors /habits. Do you lack boundaries? Sometimes we rely on old fences that were built in the beginning of our relationships (boundaries) and instead of replacing the whole fence, we board it up with old recycled pieces. We then wonder why the same people keep affecting our core and our lives negatively. How do you put back up good boundaries ? I had someone say to me... how could you throw away 30+ years of friendship. I said I didn't throw it away, I built a new fence (boundaries) and it now requires a new access codes to get in. I politely placed things that no longer aligned with my purpose outside my old gate and started to tear down the old one and invested in a new one. I replaced all the old access codes with new ones , this meant that I raised my environmental cost. “ The biggest enemy you have in your life besides the devil and your mind, is your POTENTIAL ENVIRONMENT” My Suggestion is that you need to invest in a new fence, this will require people to knock or to ask permission when entering your domain. Once that fence is up it will also require you to update all access codes, this will ensure that even if the same people get in old behaviors and attitudes will not be tolerated. What does that look like for you ? This fence shouldn't be cheap either, it should represent the things you want and need to protect in your life. This will cost you and it will not be cheap but it will be worth every bit of emotional currency you have invested in being whole. The cost of peace isn’t cheap, you have to sacrifice your old ways to inherit this lifestyle. My new fence is state of the art and these access codes are only available to the ones that are invested in protecting my core aka my purpose! Yes, I’m still reading through the manual (my bible) and working out all the kinks that may occur. · Remember to protect your Core and your mind That what makes you sick doesn't know it makes you sick! What type of boundaries do you lack? What type of boundaries are you working on? Comment below !

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  • Tiffynee Terry Thomas | Frisky Femme

    Meet Tiffynee Terry-Thomas Spiritual Transformational Coach, Relationship Coach & Clinical Sexologist Speaker Fee: Contact Us For Details Travels From: Houston, Texas Videos Programs Biography Articles and News YouTube Channel Virtual Speaking Check Tiffynee Availability Tiffynee's Terry-Thomas Speach Topics Tiffynee provides a hands-on tactile experience in all workshops she performs. Her workshops are live, engaging, and interactive. She can provide a small training example if requested. Breaking Generational Curses Imagine carrying around a heavy bag for an entire day. By the end of the day, your back and shoulders would be sore from lugging around all that weight. It can be hard to imagine how much our baggage weighs us down, but in this workshop experience, you'll get the chance to see it in person and feel it firsthand. Locating the Keys to Me Where are your keys? Did you know you hold the freedom to unlock a door in your life with that answer? If you know where your keys are, then you are free to explore new opportunities, try out new hobbies and save time by not having to look anywhere else. In this workshop I'll give you ideas on how to grab the freedom that is guarded by where you put your keys. I'll show you how to have an intense vision and victory for your future to enhance intimacy and self-worth back in your life, regardless of where life takes you. Game Day Afflictions and How to handle them.... On game day, we often experience affliction—an obstacle that causes us pain and suffering. Afflictions can often leave us feeling defeated, but we can turn our struggles into glorious victories when we work through them. We will work together in this workshop to help you learn how to overcome your afflictions so that you can focus on winning the game. The Intimate experience. We can all relate to misinformed or miseducated ideas about intimacy. Sex and intimacy are two different things. In this workshop you will learn practical strategies for self-evaluation, healing, and sexual education. You will leave with a better understanding that will guide you to healthier sexual relationships. Other Ways to Engage with Tiffynee Learn More Relationship & Spiritual Transformational Strategist Clinical Sexologist Tiffynee Terry Thomas Tiffynee Terry Thomas was born and raised in Lakewood, WA. She graduated from Central Washington University in 2011 with her Bachelor's in Interdisciplinary in Science, Psychology, and a minor in law injustice. She is a mother of 2 beautiful girls and a wife to her loving and doting husband. She has always had a passion and the ability to connect with others in a mind-blowing way that allows her to articulate messages extremely effectively to her audience. Her gift to be able to create relatable analogies to help individuals connect the dots is impeccable. So her degree in psychology helps with her business idea. BOOK A CONSULTATION

  • Physically Affectionate Woman | Frisky Femme

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  • TIFFYNEE | Frisky Femme

    Are you in a relationship that feels like it is falling apart, but has not been able to talk to the person you are in the relationship with? Can't move past the hurt and broken trust? Are you feeling stuck inside a negative this relationship If you're ready to tend to your soil... then you are in the right place. I'm happy to see that you arrived safely. Let me welcome you to a place where peace resides permanently. Storms do come from time to time, and if you adapt to the few mandatory characteristics you will make it through every one of them. ​ I am Tiffynee. I am your Guide and Gardner. I am here to show you around. Take a deep breath. & Enjoy your Exploration. Relationship & Spiritual Transformational Strategist Clinical Sexologist Tiffynee Terry Thomas Tiffynee Terry Thomas was born and raised in Lakewood, WA. She graduated from Central Washington University in 2011 with her Bachelor's in Interdisciplinary in Science, Psychology, and a minor in law injustice. She is a mother of 2 beautiful girls and a wife to her loving and doting husband. She has always had a passion and the ability to connect with others in a mind-blowing way that allows her to articulate messages extremely effectively to her audience. Her gift to be able to create relatable analogies to help individuals connect the dots is impeccable. So her degree in psychology helps with her business idea. BOOK A CONSULTATION The monthly Spiritual Garden Session is the perfect place to start. In this FREE monthly webcast series, I lead a live Spiritual Awakening and Rejuvenation that will help you release toxic habits and take your growth to the next level Take me to the Garden > Revelation ~Direction ~ Intentionality ~Humility ~ Courage ~ Strong Community ~ Accountability ~ Reflective Tools needed Along this Journey What Are People Saying... Azaria Tiffynee is a blessing that I needed I just thought I would let you know & I want to grab a book this Friday now that I am in the right mindset I'm ready to dive right into your book! Thank you everything you said I needed to hear gave me confirmation that after all, I’m not as bad as others have made me feel, after leaving your house I have come to a small realization of what makes me happy and maybe my purpose in life I’m still having so many emotions after speaking with you though I’m not too sure! Can’t wait to get my hands on your book you are truly amazing ! Yasmin Tiffynee, this book right here was my mirror at the perfect time to release what was no longer serving me. It placed me in the mirror and forced me to acknowledge myself. I had this way of being a victim without being a victim. I could pinpoint the things that went wrong but I was unable to address what was inside of ME that kept repeating the same cycles. Tiffynee not only spares no feelings her purpose is more than clear on the intent for this book to heal. If you are just starting your healing journey this book is the best place to start. If you are already in the midst of your healing this is the perfect book to make sure you are truly healing the inner you and peeling back those layers. Thank you Queen for coming out of your comfort zone with this. I am leveling up to a better woman because I had access to this which gave me access to you! Diane Tiffynee you are the definition of Gods beauty!!! You have impacted my life in such a short period and it’s only the beginning of what God has in store !! It’s his promise!!!! SIS IS IT YOU!!! Mother Ruby Irons I know is running around in heaven saying GLORAAAYYYY!!!!!. I Will Always Guide you with love. Arriving somewhere unfamiliar can make you extremely uncomfortable. I’m sure where your heart is currently, is somewhere you’ve been before. I can only imagine how many thorn bushes and weeds have invaded your precious soil when you have left your heart unattended for some time. I'm here to help you acquire the tools needed to tend to your garden and guide you on how to properly use the tools. I cannot promise this will be easy, it takes some hard work to replenish your soil. Learning how to accept yourself and dedicating yourself to creating the best version of yourself is hard work. What I can promise you is that you don't have to do any of this alone, my dear friends ...we can do it together. Request Appointment> Other Ways to Engage with Tiffynee Learn More

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  • Day Three- Unlocking the Door

    Day 3: Unlocking the door Here's what I'm going to cover in today's Challenge: What: Matching the right key to the correct lock Why: When doors are locked, experiences are missed How: I will teach you steps to develop quality daily habits to unlock doors. And here's what you are going to do today: 1. Listen to today's video 2. Complete the Alignment Assignment 3. Join me tonight at 7 pm CST for our live DAY 3 interactive workshop. If you need additional Help, you can ask a question in the FB Group. or Book a private 1:1 Call with me for only $169 during this challenge. Make sure you Grab Something Comfy for your Relaxation Days!! ENJOY YOUR DAY....SEE YOU SOON!!

  • Finding your Keys to Kinky Challenge

    Where are your keys? Did you know you hold the freedom to unlock a door in your life with that answer? If you know where your keys are, then you are free to explore new opportunities, try out new hobbies and save time by not having to look anywhere else. I'll give you ideas on how to grab the freedom that is guarded by where you put your keys.

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    Day 2: The 5 R's Here's what I'm going to cover in today's Challenge: What: The 5 R's are and how to apply them to your life Why: Introspective awareness allows you to reach new levels in your life. How: I'll teach you the steps to develop a daily habit to elevate your life And here's what you are going to do today: 1. Listen to today's 5-minute video 2. Complete the Alignment Assignment 3. Rest & Reflect

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